At the end of my rope… He won’t take out the trash!

Your house is filled with trash. Bins are bubbling over. The smell is wafting into your nostrils every few moments no matter what room you’re in! You finally decided not to take it out yourself.

That is great! You’re ready to allow the chips to fall where they may..

Let’s try something… A meditation…. Close your eyes… Take a deep breath… Relax your shoulders… Allow your pelvis to drop… Imagine….

Your man says: “How was your day?”

… you say…

“I’m feeling nauseated. I’m feeling so angry…”

He asks: “Why?”

Ready for the change?

You don’t argue with him.

You don’t tell him that he’s a jerk.

You don’t tell him that he hasn’t taken it out for days and you can’t stand him.

You say this…

“diverse rotting food scents have built up for days… so many scents - aroma in every room…. every time I take a breath in… it is hard to forget how sad I’ve been feeling.”

What is he doing now?

Have you already gotten his attention with your poetic style?

If you don’t have his attention, and he continues to ask…

“Well, why don’t you take out the trash then?”

Now You say…

“I don’t know. I just can’t do it anymore”

… turn around and walk away…

What is he doing now?

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